I saw, with my wife and daughter, my mother last month. This is a good thing; she lives in North Carolina, so it is a sometimes thing. The previous time was June 2009, with the Daughter, not my favorite visit, let’s say.
She is doing reasonably well. All her vital signs are good. Her cholesterol is in a good range, and we wonder if she still needs her medications. She’s losing weight, about 9 or 10 pounds, and she can afford to do so, per the Body Weight Index, but it makes her look at little gaunt to me. She’s a little dehydrated, common among people of her vintage. She was 5’7″ when I was growing up, but she looks about 5’5″ now. It’s strange.
I must say that Carol is a very good mother to Lydia. These are pictures I took the first day of school back in September. As I probably mentioned, Lydia felt ill-prepared for kindergarten, even after having been in day care three years. This was a self-imposed pressure, and Carol handled the situation well.
I hear some children try to pit one parent against another, and perhaps Lydia tried that when she was about four. but we’re
oldwise enough to present a united front on most issues.
Happy Mother’s Day to my mom, Lydia’s mom, Carol’s mom, Rebecca’s mom, Alex’s mom (the latter two would be my sisters) and all the moms out there.